Consent is the willingness of the other person to do the thing that you want to do. In this context, I'm talking about sexual things, of course, so given the intimate nature of those acts it's especially important to make sure they are consensual. If you have it, great, go to town, have fun. If you don't have it, don't do the thing!!! That's really all there is to it and it's really that simple. No qualifiers, no excuses, no mincing words. People sometimes use the word "unaware." That's just another word for "not consensual." Also important is that this doesn't just apply to p… Pročitajte više

Huh... apparently I'm spam. I'm not sure if some algorithm needs to be tweaked or an admin was too busy jerking off to the porn to pay attention or their cat ran across the keyboard or what, but I somehow got flagged as a spammer. Even though my account was verified... and I never posted a link to anything... and I had several rather long conversations with people... eh. Anyway, I'm back now. And leaving this post so hopefully this won't happen again!… Pročitajte više